There are forums which promote self discovery through Love. Being in love can build you up and make you feel
like you belong
like you are special
like you are chosen
by God and by a certain person.
And if someone is in love and discovers such a place it may give them a feeling of certainty
I wasn’t wrong
It is true
but is it?
It’s a bit similar to fashion so its like
we have the avant-garde designers who sometimes take things too far and it becomes “avant-merde.”
People take things too far to often. It’s the case with love, too. Sure love can be a spiritual experience but the Soul-Mate concept only holds truth if shared by the other person.
You can get signs from God that tell you he or she is the one
And then the truth doesn’t match your expectations. And you become very disappointed
Because the forums tell you: “You can have it all”
For $0.99 or if you do enough work on yourself
So you chase the most often completely unaware ”partner” and the more they don’t give you what you want
the more you hold on
and you send them 100 messages in 3 days telling them how it really is from your POV aka ”your truth”
When you haven’t even studied anything spiritual before.
People who have issues fall for unavailable people
be it emotionally or physically
but what is a love without the chaos?
It’s the chaos and the intensity of it all that makes the whole experience worthwhile
and so 99% of the people have it wrong. Then they wonder why the other person doesn’t feel the same
But it’s because they never really felt anything or not to that intensity you did
especially if you have borderline personality disorder or bipolar
or if you’re married and you’re not happy
it’s always easier to live in a fantasy
and when the people close to you tell you: “You are going to far”
listen to them.
he won’t complete you
he doesn’t love you
your love is delusional
and hating the people in the person’s life only shows your own insecurities
and denies your ”truth” of being a Loving Being. Isn’t it?